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		<title>2007 The Year in Race, Ethnicity, and Racism: The Top 10 List of the Most Fashionable Racial Trends</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 2006, inspired by Racialicous, I put up a post of the top trends in race and racism for 2006. Given the popularity of that post, and the general enjoyment I get from discussing folks&#8217; perceptions of trends, I figured I would make a list again this year. Here is the list in no particular [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 2006, inspired by <a href="http://www.racialicious.com">Racialicous,</a> I put up a post of <a href="http://www.rachelstavern.com/?p=299">the top trends in race and racism for 2006.</a> Given the popularity of that post, and the general enjoyment I get from discussing folks&#8217; perceptions of trends, I figured I would make a list again this year. Here is the list in no particular order:</p>
<p>1. <strong>Return of the Noose and Lynching Metaphors</strong>&#8211;Nooses were everywhere this year. Some think the Jena 6 Case brought the noose as a hate symbol back to the forefront. In reality, it&#8217;s hard to know if there actually were more hate crimes this involving the brandishing of nooses, since there are not concrete statistics kept on this. Diversity Inc., which attempted to keep track of noose incidents across the US, <a href="http://www.diversityinc.com/public/2588.cfm">notes 67 noose incidents across the US</a> ((Unfortunately, they do not specify a time frame for the 67 incidents.)). Whether or not the rates of noose related hate crimes were up, discussions of the noose and it&#8217;s connection to lynching were everywhere even CNN had a special called &#8220;<a href="http://www.cnn.com/CNN/Programs/siu/the.noose/">The Noose An American Nightmare</a>.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Rise of Black Bloggers as a Political Force</strong>&#8211; While I have noticed a big increase in the number of African American blogs since I started blogging in 2005, this was the first year black bloggers seemed to coalesce as a social force. Group blogs like <a href="http://afrospear.wordpress.com/about/">the Afro Spear</a> and <a href="http://whataboutourdaughters.blogspot.com/">What About Our Daughters</a> helped focus debate on cases such as the Jena 6 and Dunbar Village. Now to be fair these were just two groups of bloggers, several more independent bloggers ((Sorry I don&#8217;t have the space to promote everyone&#8217;s site here, but a quick scroll through the blogroll on the left will reveal some great blogs that are often overlooked.)) also helped shed light on stories that were generally ignored in the mainstream media. In some cases like Jena 6, blogs were created specifically for the issue at hand, and those blogs helped organize thousands of people to write, march, and speak out. Thanks to the organizing power of black bloggers thousands of protesters turned out in Jena, LA and this was just the most widely known social movement fueled by black blogs.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Anti-Chinese Rhetoric</strong>&#8211;You&#8217;d think there was a vast Chinese conspiracy to poison American children and pets if you watched one media outlet after another report on product recalls. The problem with most of these stories is what they didn&#8217;t tell you. For example, most toys sold in the US are from China, so it should come as no surprise that most of they toys being recalled are from China. For a good comparison, checkout recalled food products, since most foods eaten in the US are grown in the US, you will see a list with many US based growers and companies. Does this mean we should not eat food made in the US? What reporters also didn&#8217;t tell us is <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Business/IndustryInfo/Story?id=3887328&amp;page=1">that most toys were recalled for design problems not manufacturing problems, and guess what?  The toys weren&#8217;t designed in China</a>. Furthermore, only a tiny portion of Chinese made toys were actually recalled. The vast majority of Chinese made toys were safe! I think the popularity of Chinese toy phobia, is related to some of our general stereotypes of Chinese people in particular and Asians in general. It reminds me a little of the 1980s when similar comments were made about Japanese products. It seems that every time an Asian country starts to become a strong economic competitor these stories emerge. I&#8217;m not disputing that there are problems in China&#8217;s labor and safety standards, and I think the plethora of stories on rampant pollution in China are accurate, but the primary people harmed by these social problems are the Chinese people. Furthermore, the American news media&#8217;s rhetoric greatly exaggerated the extent and significance of these problems. I can help thinking that the smear campaign is also related to the upcoming Olympics being help in China, but that remains to be seen.</p>
<p>4.<strong> Xenophobia and Anti-Immigrant Sentiment</strong>&#8211; Immigrant haters were out in full force this year. In fact, the xenophobes have single-handedly attempted to turn the word illegal in a noun. Bigots like Lou Dobbs banged the anti-immigrant drum the loudest. They encouraged Americans to believe that illegal immigrants were destroying America. They opposed <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DREAM_Act">laws that would allow undocumented children, who were brought to the US by their parents, to get college financial aid</a>; they separated <a href="http://www.cleveland.com/news/plaindealer/index.ssf?/base/cuyahoga/1194600980307530.xml&amp;coll=2">breastfeeding mothers from their infants</a>; they blamed undocumented immigrants for crime <a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=8dkzXo0nW_4C&amp;dq=immigrants+and+crime&amp;pg=PP1&amp;ots=SpBrFQUiKu&amp;source=citation&amp;sig=Itw60dSX1aEfOFIqOsXSXecCtJE&amp;hl=en&amp;prev=http://www.google.com/search?q=immigrants+and+crime&amp;sourceid=navclient-ff&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;rlz=1B3GGGL_enUS239US239&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=print&amp;ct=result&amp;cd=1&amp;cad=bottom-3results">even though studies have shown immigrants have a lower rate of crime than native born folks;</a> and some even suggested the US get rid of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birthright_citizenship_in_the_United_States_of_America">birthright citizenship.</a> What is incredibly fascinating about most of the debate on immigration is that most Americans don&#8217;t have a clue about immigration trends and laws. Today&#8217;s immigrants are wealthier and more educated than ever, but this doesn&#8217;t seep into the debate.</p>
<p>5. <strong>Asian Male TV Characters</strong>&#8211;  Late in 2006, Racialicious had a series of posts on the 5 (<a href="http://www.racialicious.com/2006/12/28/the-5-most-fascinating-asian-male-tv-characters-right-now-part-1-of-2/">Part 1</a>; <a href="http://www.racialicious.com/2006/12/29/the-5-most-fascinating-asian-male-tv-characters-right-now-part-2-of-2/">Part 2</a>) most fascinating Asian Male TV characters. There was a time not long ago when there weren&#8217;t even 5 recurring Asian male characters on network television. While there is still a long way to go, I think this was a relatively good year for Asian men on TV. I even noticed more commercials with Asian men in them, and as atlasien noted in a recent comment, several reality TV shows had Asian cast members prominently featured. Some may wonder why I said Asian men and not Asian women. Although I don&#8217;t have any numbers in front of me, the representation for men seem to increase much more rapidly.</p>
<p>6. <strong>&#8220;Model Minority&#8221; Black Immigrants</strong>&#8211;This was one of my predictions for 2007, and I was right about this one. There were several stories about African and Caribbean immigrants, focusing on the grand achievements. While some people think comparing African American blacks with foreign born blacks provides evidence that African Americans could really do better if they just &#8220;worked harder&#8221; and stopped &#8220;using the race card,&#8221; they miss how immigration law shapes the social status of foreign born blacks, especially African born blacks. Given the current structure of immigration policy, most of the African born blacks who are able to come to the US come as professional and students. The number of refugees and poor immigrants is fairly small, but the number of diplomats, professors, and students is fairly high. My partner and his relatives are good examples of this&#8211;He and his sister were the first to arrive in the US. His sister has a PhD, speaks 5 languages, and is a translator for the United Nations, and my partner was a excellent sprinter who was able to convince three Division I American Universities to give him track scholarships based on his race times in Nigeria. For both of them, it was the demand in the US for their talents, combined with a great deal of determination, that brought them to the US, but they hardly represent the typical Nigerian.</p>
<p>7. <strong>College Racism</strong>&#8211;Oh how I wish I didn&#8217;t have to put this on the list again, but a quick look at Vox Ex Machina,, which maintains the definitive list, reveals numerous incidents of racism on college campuses. From nooses to racially themed parties to rogue newspapers and all kinds of other incidents, students were busy this year. Often, the racist students posted their racist handy work on facebook and other social networking sites. I&#8217;m not really sure if today&#8217;s college students are any more racist than the college students were back when I was in college (mid-1990s). Social scientists could use survey data to track racial attitudes of college students, but the colorblind ideology is so prevalent that students know how to give the &#8220;right&#8221; answers even if their behavior belies such sentiments.</p>
<p>8. <strong>Celebrity International (Transracial) Adoption</strong>&#8211;I&#8217;m not sure if this trend fits better into 2006 or 2007, but nonetheless, it seems like every celebrity wanted to adopt a child from outside the US. Following the lead of Madonna and Angelina Jolie, numerous celebrities were rumored to be looking to adopt. I don&#8217;t think many of these celebrities will actually follow through and adopt, but there is something unsettling about transracial, international adoption being hip and cool. We are talking about the well being of children, but when adoption seems to be a media fad, I can see many unprepared and otherwise ignorant people adopting for the wrong reason and not respecting the rule of law like <a href="http://www.amptoons.com/blog/archives/2007/11/02/europeans-try-to-kidnap-chadian-children-from-their-families/">this French charity in Chad.</a></p>
<p>9. <strong>Begging to Apologize to Blacks via Al Sharpton</strong>&#8211;Apparently, racist whites have anointed Al Sharpton the &#8220;King of Black America&#8221; because every two bit loser who made a racist comment this year went begging to apologize to black folks via Sharpton (and sometimes Jesse Jackson, who must be second in line to the thrown). Don Imus, Michael Richards, Dog the Bounty Hunter, and I&#8217;m sure others who I have forgotten, all either went on Sharpton&#8217;s show or begged to meet with him. Do I really need to say anything else?</p>
<p>10. <strong>Using Racist Comments By Whites To Talk About How Blacks Need to Change</strong>&#8211;This may be number 10 on the list, but it was by far the most annoying trend of the year. It seems like every time a well known white person made racist comments the discussion ended up being refocused on how blacks need to fix themselves. <a href="http://www.rachelstavern.com/?p=780">I dedicated a full post to this topic in Oct.</a> because I just couldn&#8217;t take it anymore. In fact, many of these discussions remind me of of children&#8217;s excuses for bad behavior. For example, let&#8217;s say I find little Timmy&#8217;s hand in the cookie jar. What&#8217;s the first thing little Timmy says, &#8220;Well Sarah did it, too?&#8221; Now, any good parent is not going to be fooled into turning Timmy&#8217;s cookie theft into a reason to punish Sarah. Unfortunately, when it comes to racism, many in white America act just like little Timmy, so racist comments from Don Imus and other whites turn into discussions of the pathologies of Blacks.</p>
<p>So there you have it, my list of the top trends in race and ethnicity. I realize that this list is very US biased, so I&#8217;m curious to see what some of the readers outside of the US noticed in their countries this past year.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric Stoller has published the <a href="http://ericstoller.com/blog/2007/11/20/the-19th-erase-racism-carnival/">19th Erase Racism Carnival</a> full of great posts.  Go check it out!</p>
<p>The <a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/erase-racism-carnival/">Erase Racism Carnival</a> is a roaming carnival that is published on the 20th of each month.  Next month&#8217;s carnival will be hosted by <a href="http://www.radicalagitator.blogspot.com/">Present Progressive Mood</a>.  You should <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/submit_303.html">submit your posts here</a>.  If you are interested in hosting a future edition of the carnival, check the <a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/erase-racism-carnival/">Erase Racism Carnival page</a> for available dates and contact information.<span class="akst_link"><a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/?p=110&amp;akst_action=share-this"  title="E-mail this, post to del.icio.us, etc." id="akst_link_110"  class="akst_share_link">Share This</a><br />
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was sorting through some old papers the other day and found a sheet of paper from the Gay and Lesbian Action Council that is about a decade old called &#8220;Qualities of a GLBT Ally.&#8221;  I was reading through it and realized that such a list would be a really good thing to have on <a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net">AllyWork</a>.  So here is the revised list:</p>
<p>An ally to people of color is a person who&#8230;</p>
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<li>&#8230;believes that it is in their self-interest to be an ally to people of color.</li>
<li>&#8230;has worked to develop an understanding of issues facing people of color.  Is comfortable with their knowledge of racial identity.</li>
<li>&#8230;understand how racism and other patterns of oppression operate.  Is willing to identify oppressive acts, and challenge the behaviors of others.</li>
<li>&#8230;works to be an ally to all oppressed people.</li>
<li>&#8230;is quick to take pride in, and appreciates the successes when combating racism and White Supremacy.</li>
<li>&#8230;is open with their support and ally status.</li>
<li>&#8230;chooses to align with people of color and represent their needs, especially when they are unable to safely do so themselves.</li>
<li>&#8230;expects to make some mistakes, and does not use any feelings of personal guilt to become an ineffective ally.</li>
<li>&#8230;promotes a sense of community with people of color, and teaches others about the importance of these communities.  Encourages others to provide advocacy.  Discusses the issues with family, friends, co-workers, teachers - anyone.</li>
<li>&#8230;is not afraid to be called names, or to be harassed in the same ways as those they are acting as an ally for.</li>
<li>&#8230;is able to address/confront individuals without being defensive, sarcastic, or threatening.</li>
<li>&#8230;is willing to tell their family to stop the name calling, or hate speech.</li>
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		<description><![CDATA[Charles has posted the 18th Erase Racism Carnival over at Kill Bigotry! As usual we have great submissions.
Here is the schedule for the next 3 months. January is still open if anyone is interested in hosting. For more information about the carnival, check out the carnival&#8217;s home page at Ally Work.
 November 2007 @ Eric [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Charles has posted the <a href="http://killbigotry.blogspot.com/2007/10/erase-racism-blog-carnival-october.html">18th Erase Racism Carnival over at Kill Bigotry</a>! As usual we have great submissions.</p>
<p>Here is the schedule for the next 3 months. January is still open if anyone is interested in hosting. For more information about the carnival, check out the carnival&#8217;s home page at <a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/erase-racism-carnival/">Ally Work.</a></p>
<blockquote><p> November 2007 @ <a href="http://www.ericstoller.com/blog">Eric Stoller</a><br />
December 2007 @ <a href="http://www.radicalagitator.blogspot.com/">Present Progressive Mood</a><br />
January 2008 @ open</p></blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[While maybe not as jolting as nooses in trees, Resist Racism has a good post up about a pervasive problem that can really shed the light on racism and White Supremacy.  The post is called Mistaken Identity and talks about the common experience of White people mistaking people of color as &#8220;the help.&#8221;  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While maybe not as jolting as nooses in trees, <a href="http://resistracism.wordpress.com">Resist Racism</a> has a good post up about a pervasive problem that can really shed the light on racism and White Supremacy.  The post is called <a href="http://resistracism.wordpress.com/2007/10/19/mistaken-identity/">Mistaken Identity</a> and talks about the common experience of White people mistaking people of color as &#8220;the help.&#8221;  </p>
<blockquote><p>The first time I remember this happening I didn’t attach much meaning to it. I was at a friend’s wedding reception when a white woman asked me to get her a drink. I was a little puzzled by her request, and told her that the bar was self-service. Later she complained to the bride that the “help” was “snippy.”</p></blockquote>
<p>The first things that jump to mind when asking the question &#8220;why would this occur so frequently?&#8221; are as follows:<br />
 - Segregation: Its true that in the U.S. we continue to live in a largely segregated country.  When groups of people don&#8217;t have regular, meaningful contact with one another, they tend to rely more heavily upon stereotypes.  But its not just stereotypes.  I was working in a restaurant kitchen once in a city that was over 30% people of color, but was so segregated that you could be downtown and guess the number to be closer to one-tenth of that.  </p>
<p>While working in the kitchen, a friend and I were talking about how sad it is that for many of the White people in that city, there only interaction with people of color is seeing them as kitchen staff or cleaning their houses or mowing their lawns.  Segregation has basically reinforced the idea that people of color are only around to serve White people.  Which brings me to the second thing that came to mind</p>
<p> - The pervasiveness of White Supremacy.  While most of us White folks would never identify as White Supremacist, that doesn&#8217;t mean we haven&#8217;t subconsciously ingested some (or a lot) of the messaging.  Therefore, is it not possible that one reason for mistaking people of color as &#8220;the help&#8221; is that we subconsciously believe that is their role: to serve White people?</p>
<p>Just some thoughts.  Whether you agree with them or not, you should go check out the post, <a href="http://resistracism.wordpress.com/2007/10/19/mistaken-identity">Mistaken Identity</a>.<br />
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		<title>Erase Racism Carnival Will Be Held at Kill Bigotry!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This month&#8217;s Erase Racism Carnival will be held at Kill Bigotry! 
Submissions are due on Oct. 17th, and the carnival goes up around the 20th.  If you want to submit an article you can go here.
For more information about the Carnival, You can check out the Carnival Homepage at Allywork. The Hosting schedule for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This month&#8217;s Erase Racism Carnival will be held at <a href="http://www.killbigotry.blogspot.com/">Kill Bigotry! </a></p>
<p>Submissions are due on Oct. 17th, and the carnival goes up around the 20th.  If you want to submit an article <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/cprof_303.html">you can go here.</a></p>
<p>For more information about the Carnival, You can check out the <a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/erase-racism-carnival/">Carnival Homepage at Allywork</a>. The Hosting schedule for the rest of the year is: November 2007 @ <a href="http://www.ericstoller.com/blog">Eric Stoller</a>; December 2007 @ <a href="http://www.radicalagitator.blogspot.com/">Present Progressive Mood.</a><span class="akst_link"><a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/?p=106&amp;akst_action=share-this"  title="E-mail this, post to del.icio.us, etc." id="akst_link_106"  class="akst_share_link">Share This</a><br />
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2007 21:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Carnival is really growing, and Susan has managed to piece together a long list of posts for this month.  Go check out the posts!
Next month&#8217;s Carnival will be held over at Kill Bigotry, and in November the Carnival will be at Eric Stoller&#8217;s place.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Carnival is really growing, and Susan has managed to piece together <a href="http://readingwritingliving.wordpress.com/2007/09/27/the-erase-racism-blog-carnival-is-here/">a long list of posts for this month</a>.  Go check out the posts!</p>
<p>Next month&#8217;s Carnival will be held over at <a href="http://www.killbigotry.blogspot.com/">Kill Bigotry</a>, and in November the Carnival will be at <a href="http://www.ericstoller.com/blog/">Eric Stoller&#8217;s</a> place.</p>
<p>If you are interested in hosting a future Erase Racism Carnival or submitting a post, you can check out <a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/erase-racism-carnival/">the Carnival Homepage</a> for available dates and contact information.<span class="akst_link"><a href="http://allywork.solidaritydesign.net/?p=105&amp;akst_action=share-this"  title="E-mail this, post to del.icio.us, etc." id="akst_link_105"  class="akst_share_link">Share This</a><br />
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		<description><![CDATA[This month&#8217;s Carnival will be held at Reading, Writing, and Living.  Due to some computer difficulties it&#8217;s going up a little late, so if you haven&#8217;t already submitted a post, there is still time.  It&#8217;s going up on the 27th, so you need to have posts in by the 25th.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This month&#8217;s Carnival will be held at <a href="http://readingwritingliving.wordpress.com/">Reading, Writing, and Living</a>.  Due to some computer difficulties it&#8217;s going up a little late, so if you haven&#8217;t already submitted a post, there is still time.  It&#8217;s going up on the 27th, so you need to have posts in by the 25th.</p>
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		<title>Some of My Best Friends (and Family) Are Racists</title>
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I remember an argument I had with my mother a few years back. I had brought my boyfriend, a black man, who I had been dating for 4 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Editor&#8217;s Note: I don&#8217;t often share very personal stories, but I think there is something instructive in this story, so I am prepared to deal with the blowback.</p>
<p>I remember an argument I had with my mother a few years back. I had brought my boyfriend, a black man, who I had been dating for 4 years, to a family picnic. At the picnic, my grandfather and his wife refused to shake my ex-boyfriend&#8217;s hand because he was black. I knew something like this was going to happen, as my maternal extended relatives had made numerous bigoted comments going back to my childhood. I felt terrible for putting my ex in that situation, and I felt terrible that nobody in my family stood up and said something. They pretended like nothing happened. I was sobbing and furious, and he and I left the picnic soon after. We stopped at a fast food place, and he said, &#8220;I&#8217;ve never had anything like this happen to me before. I&#8217;m so glad we left.&#8221; I was glad to be gone, too.</p>
<p>After leaving I had an over the phone discussion with my mother, where my mother suggested that it was unfortunate that we left because my young cousins were crying.  They liked and missed my ex and could not figure out why he had left.  Her tone suggested that my ex and I were responsible for my cousins being upset, and perhaps, if we came back, they would stop crying. I remember being furious with my mother&#8217;s reaction, and I blurted out, &#8220;They should be upset. Racism hurts people. The fact that they are crying is a good thing. Hopefully, when they grow up, they will remember this so they don&#8217;t ever treat people that way.&#8221;</p>
<p>Later that evening, my mother and some of my aunts and cousins who felt bad about the situation came over to my apartment. I guess it was their way to try to make up for not saying anything at the picnic.  They brought my younger cousins, so they could actually talk to my ex and hopefully feel better.  At some point, they tried to tell me how my grandfather felt uncomfortable, and he felt like everybody was looking to see what he would do, and he made the claim that this was why he and his wife refused to shake hands.  They also reminded me that my grandfather was notorious for being an abrasive person outside of his racism. But I wasn&#8217;t having it. To me this was all bullshit. Racist bullshit. Yes, he had been an asshole on other occasions, but this time he was a racist asshole.</p>
<p>I had listened to him and some other relatives in my extended family say pejorative things about blacks and Latinos for years. These offensive comments ranged from using the word nigger, to talking about lazy &#8220;colored&#8221; people, and making all kinds of statements about Mexican migrant farmworkers. It was rare for anybody but me to challenge this, and I didn&#8217;t even do it every time.  In fact, it reached a point where people didn&#8217;t saying these things around me anymore because they knew I would get mad. 1</p>
<p>The next Christmas my father and brother showed their solidarity with my ex (and me) by refusing to attend any events that my maternal grandfather attended.</p>
<p>I half forgave my grandfather and his wife even thought they never apologized and most likely they weren&#8217;t sorry for what they did. I&#8217;m not exactly sure how my ex dealt with this in the long run. By the time I saw my grandfather again, about 2 years later, I was no longer is that relationship. I had recently found out my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer, and I sat at the table and bit my tongue, while trying my best to act friendly. I know my mother, who felt torn over these events, was happy to see me sitting at that table, and I cheered when I saw him again 6 months later, and he announced his cancer had gone into remission. But I can&#8217;t lie. I was happy to be living very far away from him; I knew I didn&#8217;t have to confront this issue over and over again.</p>
<p>In my first month in New York, he suffered a severe stroke and heart attack. He suffered a great deal for a month or two, and then he passed away. I was sad that he died, and part of that sadness was with the fact that he never confronted any of the pain he visited on others. That racist incident defined my relationship with him over the last few years of his life. It&#8217;s really hard to remember the jokes he made when I was a child, before I knew or understood the depth of his bigotry.</p>
<p>This incident didn&#8217;t only change my view of him; it still lingers in the background of the relationships with many of my relatives. Some people may believe the lesson in this story is that you should make up with your loved ones before they die, but I don&#8217;t see it that way. I didn&#8217;t do anything wrong, and I didn&#8217;t want to expend any more emotional energy fighting an uphill battle. It would have been nice to get an apology for my ex and myself, but the odds of that happening were slim. To me, the lesson is that racism destroys relationships. It makes, otherwise decent people, turn a blind eye to suffering. The theory that says many white people don&#8217;t care about racism because it doesn&#8217;t effect them or their loved ones makes sense until you realize that in many cases loved ones are either perpetrators or inactive bystanders when racism is directed at their loved ones.</p>
<p>Racism is so insidious that it anesthetizes people to suffering of others (even others who they care about).  It destroys empathetic reactions to human suffering. The victims of racism are expected to be the &#8220;bigger people&#8221; while the perpetrators get the &#8220;Get Out of Racism Free&#8221; card. Even when they know racist behavior is wrong and harmful, many white observers of racism suffer from moral paralysis. Rather than doing what is morally right, they do nothing.</p>
<p>Moral paralysis is learned. It is not something that you are born with. This is actually why I was happy that my little cousins were crying when we left that picnic. Even though they didn&#8217;t quite know what was going on or why this situation was bad, it showed me that they hadn&#8217;t quite learned to be immune the suffering that racism causes. I hope, nearly 10 years later, they still get upset in those situations. I hope they have the courage to respond to bigots inside and outside our family. It may be the more difficult path to take (as I can attest to), but it&#8217;s the right one.</p>
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<li>I&#8217;d like to think that some stopped because they had a change of heart, but I&#8217;m not so convinced.</li>
<li>I&#8217;m not saying that it is easy for people who observe racist behavior to speak out. In these cases of family racism, there are often long protracted battles where people choose sides, which is not easy to do when you love someone but don&#8217;t love their behavior. Personally, I chose to withdraw rather than lobby for support. Partly, because I knew I was right; partly because I had been fighting on this issue for years prior to this; and partly because I didn&#8217;t expect to get too much support. In fact, I suspect that the amount of sympathy my partner and I received would have been inversely related to how much lobbying we did.</li>
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		<title>September Erase Racism Carnival</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 03:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This month&#8217;s Carnival will be held at <a href="http://readingwritingliving.wordpress.com/">Reading, Writing, and Living</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>The Erase Racism Carnival is a collection of blog posts dedicated to creating a world free of racism. The Carnival is published around the 20th of every month.</p>
<p>If you would like to submit a post written by you or someone else, just <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/cprof_303.html">go here</a> and click on &#8220;submit your blog article to this carnival&#8221;. Along with the URL of the article, be sure to include your name and email.</p></blockquote>
<p>You can also submit directly to Reading Writing and Living: susan@susanito.com</p>
<p>We have also booked the Carnival through the end of the year.  You can check out some of the sites in advance:</p>
<blockquote><p> October 2007 @ <a href="http://www.killbigotry.blogspot.com/" title="Kill Bigotry!">Kill Bigotry!</a><br />
November 2007 @ <a href="http://www.ericstoller.com/blog">Eric Stoller</a><br />
December 2007 @ <a href="http://www.radicalagitator.blogspot.com">Present Progressive Mood</a></p></blockquote>
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